On Confrontations.

I have never liked confrontations. Fortunately, I haven’t been a part of too many and it’s a good thing too, because I am not good at handling things like this. I really don’t see the point to such arguments….I mean how many people do you come across who would give in because they truly believe they were wrong? Its more of a give in with a “I am the victim here” or “they’d never understand” thing . I have heard people say how its better to bring things out in the open and sort it out but I have yet to see it “sorted out”. If anything, I’ve seen things go from bad to worse and people who might have once cared about one another, get hurt and lose respect. Its hard (I’d even go as far as saying its impossible) to re-establish the same rapport then and ofcourse each party/person is wary of the other in the future. For now, I am for just letting go….to forgive if you can, and forget… because it makes life easier. I know this sounds utopic at best and that this approach would probably not work too well in the “real world”. I guess I have a lot to experience and learn.